The Teacher has experienced quite a few firsts with me leading her into this new sexual era. The first night together we added three basic items to her repertoire. The first of which is she can have a really, really good time with her newly discovered g-spot. She honestly didn't think she had one! Even without the orgasms from it it gives her immense pleasure. And me, too. I definitely enjoy controlling her entire body with just one hand, watching her squirm, tense, quicken her breathing... all at my will and the talent of two fingers.
Leading to the second item which would be internal/g-spot orgasms. Prior to our first session she'd never had an orgasm without clitoral stimulation. I know some women simply can't get off internally but i'm always up for the challenge, and sometimes it pays off. In this case, in spades. I'll cover this in another post but she can now cum more than anyone i've ever been with. It amazes even me, and don't think for a moment that i'm not running with it, pushing her, always wanting her to give me more until her body finally gives out and she simply can't cum anymore. Then I give her a minute or two and push her again. And again. And again. It's amazing. The second night we were together we also unlocked her ability to get off during penetration, giving us even more fun options. This girl is an amazing sexual partner and every man prior has sadly wasted her talents.
Third item... this woman has turned into a sexy, naked, writhing fountain. I've been lucky enough to be with a lot of squirters, but this is the most i've ever seen. And I fucking love it. We go through so many towels she's going to have to hire a maid just for laundry. Some people don't get it, and that's fine. I personally think it's pretty damn hot watching a woman squirt all over herself, mess be damned.
So i'll continue to push her and i'm sure she'll continue to surprise herself with new things she didn't know she could do or would like. Tonight, for example, she's going to get tied up for the first time and taken as I wish. I'm sure when she finds out about this new first for her, she'll be just as excited as I am.
Thursday, April 28, 2011
Wednesday, April 27, 2011
Saturday, April 23, 2011
New Friends (Part 1)
Lately i've been shuffling my list of people around. A shake-up, if you will. Anything connected to GGPB is gone, which I am completely fine with. So, time to start (almost) anew. There are a couple new people I've been getting to know over the last week and it's time to introduce one of them.
The last two evenings i've spent with the Teacher. Irony unintended but it does occur to me that, since she is new to kink, i'm doing all the teaching. I actually don't mind this at all. There's something very fun and exciting about showing someone the sexual world I live in. Pulling back the curtain. Getting involved with someone who is already into kink is different in that they come with a pre-loaded set of preferences and experiences. That can be both positive and negative, but back to the topic at hand...
Teacher and I met for the first time on Thursday, a spur of the moment thing, at a bar she likes. I should note that she lured me there on the "dive bar that plays rock music" premise, but apparently she really wanted to go to a "dive bar that plays dance music where fat, black women go to dance". Not really, but that's what it turned out to be. She swears it's not usually like that... When I pulled up in the parking lot I texted her to let her know I was there and she replied she was the only blonde at the bar. As i'm walking up, scanning, I notice a woman at the end of the bar with blonde hair, a short skirt and legs that I immediately thought would look amazing wrapped around me. We introduced ourselves, I got a beer and we moved to a booth to get more comfortable. We immediately hit it off and started joking around and flirting. After a couple hours of talking, drinking and people watching we decided to head somewhere quieter (relatively) and stopped at a bar she used to work at. We got cozy at the bar and promptly became "friends" with the couple next to us. We actually didn't have a say in the matter, but at least they bought us our drinks that night. They also seemed to think I looked like either Marc Anthony or some dude from Maroon 5, Adam Levine. I don't see how I look like either one, but thanks for the compliments. Everything else was going very well with lots of conversation and touching and legs draped over other legs, until... (paraphrasing) "My ex just texted me. He's here at the bar."
What?
Yep... awkward, screeching halt is what that was. After it was established that he wasn't psycho and wouldn't bother us we got back to our thing and had a nice, flirtatious time. After closing she drove us back to my car at the first bar and we had a pretty intense makeout session in the parking lot before calling it a night.
Almost!
There was some texting after we both got home about how hot the kissing was an how we were both really worked up and an invitation was extended for me to come see her at her place. Immediately. She gave me her address and, gps in hand, off I went. I arrived at her place about 20 minutes later but it quickly became apparent that she had fallen asleep and there would be no impulsive satisfying of carnal desires at 3:30am. Oh well. She did, however, text me in the morning and apologize, promising to make up for it...
The last two evenings i've spent with the Teacher. Irony unintended but it does occur to me that, since she is new to kink, i'm doing all the teaching. I actually don't mind this at all. There's something very fun and exciting about showing someone the sexual world I live in. Pulling back the curtain. Getting involved with someone who is already into kink is different in that they come with a pre-loaded set of preferences and experiences. That can be both positive and negative, but back to the topic at hand...
Teacher and I met for the first time on Thursday, a spur of the moment thing, at a bar she likes. I should note that she lured me there on the "dive bar that plays rock music" premise, but apparently she really wanted to go to a "dive bar that plays dance music where fat, black women go to dance". Not really, but that's what it turned out to be. She swears it's not usually like that... When I pulled up in the parking lot I texted her to let her know I was there and she replied she was the only blonde at the bar. As i'm walking up, scanning, I notice a woman at the end of the bar with blonde hair, a short skirt and legs that I immediately thought would look amazing wrapped around me. We introduced ourselves, I got a beer and we moved to a booth to get more comfortable. We immediately hit it off and started joking around and flirting. After a couple hours of talking, drinking and people watching we decided to head somewhere quieter (relatively) and stopped at a bar she used to work at. We got cozy at the bar and promptly became "friends" with the couple next to us. We actually didn't have a say in the matter, but at least they bought us our drinks that night. They also seemed to think I looked like either Marc Anthony or some dude from Maroon 5, Adam Levine. I don't see how I look like either one, but thanks for the compliments. Everything else was going very well with lots of conversation and touching and legs draped over other legs, until... (paraphrasing) "My ex just texted me. He's here at the bar."
What?
Yep... awkward, screeching halt is what that was. After it was established that he wasn't psycho and wouldn't bother us we got back to our thing and had a nice, flirtatious time. After closing she drove us back to my car at the first bar and we had a pretty intense makeout session in the parking lot before calling it a night.
Almost!
There was some texting after we both got home about how hot the kissing was an how we were both really worked up and an invitation was extended for me to come see her at her place. Immediately. She gave me her address and, gps in hand, off I went. I arrived at her place about 20 minutes later but it quickly became apparent that she had fallen asleep and there would be no impulsive satisfying of carnal desires at 3:30am. Oh well. She did, however, text me in the morning and apologize, promising to make up for it...
Sunday, April 17, 2011
Next!
So i've been playing catch up these last few days. A lot has happened and GGPB is no longer around. Why? I couldn't say. She won't even tell me. She won't speak to me at all, actually. Now, people come and go and that's fine. I want my time spent writing to be more fun and less drama or bad times so I normally would keep details private, but in this case i'll break my guideline. And truth be told, there aren't even any details. Because I don't know them... See above.
About a week ago something to which I am still clueless about (although I have my suspicions. and even then I think to myself, "really?") happened that I can only assume upset GGPB. Ok, fine. People do things once in a while that irritate others, even when we don't mean to. They're called mistakes. It's how the world works. We all, or most of us, deal with it like adults. So this past Monday morning I texted her like I do most days to get the details on anything fun that happened the previous night, see what the plan was for today, etc. And I got... silence. And when I got around to logging into my Facebook later on it looked like something was missing. Oh, posts by GGPB... Apparently I had been "unfriended" as well. Both mature and classy were obviously not the themes for whatever this was.
This day in particular I was looking for details on a certain situation that was ongoing between her and one of her other playthings. This is only important in that the end result directly relates to me. I had asked her about it a few days prior and her reply was "He's dead to me". That in itself should have been a red flag. This is someone who she'd known for several years and was all of a sudden excised from her life. So the fact that she's done that to me should be no surprise, really. It's apparently how she deals with conflict. You know, without resolution and the same way a child would. Ignore it and don't deal with it. Now, to her credit, she appears to handle her marriage with far more respect and she and her husband are able to work through things. So good on her. Everyone else is disposable.
Having both a few years under my belt as well as experience with an open relationship, conflict is something i've dealt with before. You bring it up, talk it out, fight it out if you must (not my MO) and then you find a resolution, hug it out, fuck it out (if that's what you do), and move on. Like adults who genuinely care about those around them. In this case, if the issue is what I suspect, it could have been pretty easily resolved. I guess in the end what it comes down to is this: Be a grown-up. Talk about stuff. If you don't then you're going to lose good people who can add a lot to your life. And that's just unfortunate.
Au revoir.
About a week ago something to which I am still clueless about (although I have my suspicions. and even then I think to myself, "really?") happened that I can only assume upset GGPB. Ok, fine. People do things once in a while that irritate others, even when we don't mean to. They're called mistakes. It's how the world works. We all, or most of us, deal with it like adults. So this past Monday morning I texted her like I do most days to get the details on anything fun that happened the previous night, see what the plan was for today, etc. And I got... silence. And when I got around to logging into my Facebook later on it looked like something was missing. Oh, posts by GGPB... Apparently I had been "unfriended" as well. Both mature and classy were obviously not the themes for whatever this was.
This day in particular I was looking for details on a certain situation that was ongoing between her and one of her other playthings. This is only important in that the end result directly relates to me. I had asked her about it a few days prior and her reply was "He's dead to me". That in itself should have been a red flag. This is someone who she'd known for several years and was all of a sudden excised from her life. So the fact that she's done that to me should be no surprise, really. It's apparently how she deals with conflict. You know, without resolution and the same way a child would. Ignore it and don't deal with it. Now, to her credit, she appears to handle her marriage with far more respect and she and her husband are able to work through things. So good on her. Everyone else is disposable.
Having both a few years under my belt as well as experience with an open relationship, conflict is something i've dealt with before. You bring it up, talk it out, fight it out if you must (not my MO) and then you find a resolution, hug it out, fuck it out (if that's what you do), and move on. Like adults who genuinely care about those around them. In this case, if the issue is what I suspect, it could have been pretty easily resolved. I guess in the end what it comes down to is this: Be a grown-up. Talk about stuff. If you don't then you're going to lose good people who can add a lot to your life. And that's just unfortunate.
Au revoir.
Saturday, April 16, 2011
Best. Toy. Ever.
If you've never heard of something called the We Vibe, i'm about to introduce you. You can thank me later. If you have, this should back up most of what you've heard and if you've used one... you know exactly where this is going.
Prior to a couple weeks ago I had only heard stories and read reviews about this amazing vibrator that was rumored to do amazing things to both vaginas and, to a lesser extent, penises. Being extremely well versed in the anatomical areas that the device is supposed to affect (especially the g-spot) I knew the potential and had high hopes. Essentially, we're talking about a somewhat "U" shaped device that vibrates at both ends of the U. One end is inserted into the vagina and the other end rests outside on the clit. It looks like so:
Now, what it does is actually quite a bit more than just vibrate. While it does the usual duty of stimulating the clit it also does three other very, very nice things. Ok, technically four, but we'll get there. The first three are:
1) Since it's meant to be used during sex it's going to provide a bit more "fullness" on the inside. Never a bad thing. Especially in conjunction with working a g-spot.
2) During thrusting it's going to put pressure directly on the g-spot. If you (ladies) have ever had a man skillfully work that spot with his fingers just imagine that plus the benefits of getting fucked at the same time.
3) It's going to vibrate on the inside as well, which again, also never a bad thing.
The fourth benefit is that the vibration can be really great for guys, too. It's not so much that it's *too* much but neither is it too distracting.
So here's my experience with it...
There was an evening a while ago that I was over at GGPB's house relaxing and having a few drinks. Somehow the topic of discussion turned to this toy and she admitted she'd never heard of it. After grabbing her Ipad and doing about 60 seconds of research she had an order placed solely on my recommendation and promise to break it in with her.
Fast forward a few weeks since she had gone out of town. The toy arrived the day before she was to leave but we didn't have time to get together. I let her know I'd prefer she not use it for the first time without me since I was the reason she had it to begin with and she agreed to leave it at home. Now that she was back, we couldn't wait to use it and made a date for the first evening her husband would be out of town on one of his own dates so that we'd have enough time to play.
I arrived at her place pretty much ready to go right then. We headed upstairs and had some pre-gaming but my focus was clearly on our new friend, and after a full day of charging it was ready to go. She turned it on and was impressed with the vibration, as it's definitely not a large toy. Then she got on her back, slid it into position and I slid my cock into her.
And let me tell you, my friends, it was fucking amazing...
Right from go we were both blown away. For me, having that extra stimulation along the top of my cock had me moving toward an orgasm pretty quickly. And that *never* happens. I actually had to stop at one point, focus on trying to block out some of the sensation, and then continue. But her... It didn't take her long at all to get there, and once she started coming she didn't stop. She arched her back and threw her head back, her hands going everywhere; the sheets, all over me, sometimes grabbing my hips and pulling me into her as hard as she could. I kept waiting to see the comedown but it seemed like every new thrust just pushed her further. After what seemed like an eternity she pushed me off and said she couldn't handle any more. She also said she was literally seeing stars and this one isn't prone to exaggeration. I'm sure after coming for that long most of the blood was no longer in her brain, hence the stars effect. It's hard to estimate how long it lasted but i'm guessing she was coming for somewhere between 3 and 5 minutes pretty nonstop.
All in all, it's pretty much the best toy i've had the opportunity to play with. "It's so choice. If you have the means, I highly recommend picking one up" - Ferris Bueller
I know i'll be recommending them to anyone else I happen to play with. I've already started, actually...
Prior to a couple weeks ago I had only heard stories and read reviews about this amazing vibrator that was rumored to do amazing things to both vaginas and, to a lesser extent, penises. Being extremely well versed in the anatomical areas that the device is supposed to affect (especially the g-spot) I knew the potential and had high hopes. Essentially, we're talking about a somewhat "U" shaped device that vibrates at both ends of the U. One end is inserted into the vagina and the other end rests outside on the clit. It looks like so:
Now, what it does is actually quite a bit more than just vibrate. While it does the usual duty of stimulating the clit it also does three other very, very nice things. Ok, technically four, but we'll get there. The first three are:
1) Since it's meant to be used during sex it's going to provide a bit more "fullness" on the inside. Never a bad thing. Especially in conjunction with working a g-spot.
2) During thrusting it's going to put pressure directly on the g-spot. If you (ladies) have ever had a man skillfully work that spot with his fingers just imagine that plus the benefits of getting fucked at the same time.
3) It's going to vibrate on the inside as well, which again, also never a bad thing.
The fourth benefit is that the vibration can be really great for guys, too. It's not so much that it's *too* much but neither is it too distracting.
So here's my experience with it...
There was an evening a while ago that I was over at GGPB's house relaxing and having a few drinks. Somehow the topic of discussion turned to this toy and she admitted she'd never heard of it. After grabbing her Ipad and doing about 60 seconds of research she had an order placed solely on my recommendation and promise to break it in with her.
Fast forward a few weeks since she had gone out of town. The toy arrived the day before she was to leave but we didn't have time to get together. I let her know I'd prefer she not use it for the first time without me since I was the reason she had it to begin with and she agreed to leave it at home. Now that she was back, we couldn't wait to use it and made a date for the first evening her husband would be out of town on one of his own dates so that we'd have enough time to play.
I arrived at her place pretty much ready to go right then. We headed upstairs and had some pre-gaming but my focus was clearly on our new friend, and after a full day of charging it was ready to go. She turned it on and was impressed with the vibration, as it's definitely not a large toy. Then she got on her back, slid it into position and I slid my cock into her.
And let me tell you, my friends, it was fucking amazing...
Right from go we were both blown away. For me, having that extra stimulation along the top of my cock had me moving toward an orgasm pretty quickly. And that *never* happens. I actually had to stop at one point, focus on trying to block out some of the sensation, and then continue. But her... It didn't take her long at all to get there, and once she started coming she didn't stop. She arched her back and threw her head back, her hands going everywhere; the sheets, all over me, sometimes grabbing my hips and pulling me into her as hard as she could. I kept waiting to see the comedown but it seemed like every new thrust just pushed her further. After what seemed like an eternity she pushed me off and said she couldn't handle any more. She also said she was literally seeing stars and this one isn't prone to exaggeration. I'm sure after coming for that long most of the blood was no longer in her brain, hence the stars effect. It's hard to estimate how long it lasted but i'm guessing she was coming for somewhere between 3 and 5 minutes pretty nonstop.
All in all, it's pretty much the best toy i've had the opportunity to play with. "It's so choice. If you have the means, I highly recommend picking one up" - Ferris Bueller
I know i'll be recommending them to anyone else I happen to play with. I've already started, actually...
Thursday, April 14, 2011
Tied
Still here... It's been an interesting two weeks and I have catching up to do.
I'll begin by saying, submission is not in my nature. When kink is involved I do the tying, I do the commanding, I do... whatever feels appropriate at that time and generally whatever I want. Within pre-set boundaries of course. Shortly after my last post, I tried something new. I allowed myself to be a bottom. Temporarily. For GGPB.
I'll clarify before I go any further: I don't expect that to be a part of my normal experience with just anyone. I'm not a sub, nor a bottom, and not even really a switch. I am, however, open-minded enough that I think I could and should try things at least once. Most of them... An argument can also be made that a good Dom can only become better by understanding what it is to be a good sub. Until I met GGPB the thought had never crossed my mind. But there's an interesting dynamic and chemistry there that opens up that door with her.
New. Fun. Exciting. Frustrating. All accurate terms describing that experience. It started off with her bringing me up to the bedroom and telling me to get undressed. Didn't ask, told me. I realized immediately that the dynamic had shifted from two dominant people giving and taking to her owning the scene. I was in her world tonight. I'm pretty sure my heart beat a little faster as I wondered what was in store. As I looked over at the bed I noticed rope laying on it... Questions answered.
I was told to lay down and knew exactly what was coming from there. I've done this. Many times. The only difference was that I was the one with the rope in my hand, not the one with both my wrists and ankles about to be tied to the bed. She used a tie called a cat's paw that I thought was interesting. Not so much a knot, as is the typical single limb cuff I would use, as it was a binding but it worked well. I made several attempts to free up a wrist and was not successful.
Which brings me to my next point: I struggled. Quite a bit. Especially when she would move close to my hands, which i'm sure was intentional. I would make attempts to touch or grab her and most of the time she would brush my hand away. Even in my tied up state I made attempts to gain some control, like when she moved her head too close to my hand and I grabbed her by the hair. She quickly removed my hand and slid away, keeping her head just out of reach from then on.
The rest of the session was essentially her teasing me in various ways and pleasing herself. Earlier she had tied a rope around my waist, loosely, and put a long knot on the end of it. I asked what it was for and she seemed amused that I didn't know. But she showed me. A lot. She would climb on top of me intermittently, with her pussy positioned just above my cock and start rubbing one or the both of us. And then the knot came into play. She'd grab it and position it on her clit, then start rocking her hips over me, rubbing the knot back and forth until she came. The sensation of being pulled toward her by the rope as she used it plus the visual had me dying to sink my cock into her.
The other thing that stands out was her taking advantage of my face, pretty literally. She crawled up, put her knees on either side of my head and lowered herself, gently pushing her wet lips onto my mouth. This was something we had also discussed prior, and I was happy to be of service in that area.
After releasing me I jumped on her and we had our usual fun. In the end, it was interesting and good, if not something I can easily do. As much as I already love pleasing someone it's very hard to slip into a bottom mindset when all my other interactions are colored by varying degrees of dominance. And I would do it again with the right person if I come across one. I'll explain why it won't be GGPB in another post.
I'll begin by saying, submission is not in my nature. When kink is involved I do the tying, I do the commanding, I do... whatever feels appropriate at that time and generally whatever I want. Within pre-set boundaries of course. Shortly after my last post, I tried something new. I allowed myself to be a bottom. Temporarily. For GGPB.
I'll clarify before I go any further: I don't expect that to be a part of my normal experience with just anyone. I'm not a sub, nor a bottom, and not even really a switch. I am, however, open-minded enough that I think I could and should try things at least once. Most of them... An argument can also be made that a good Dom can only become better by understanding what it is to be a good sub. Until I met GGPB the thought had never crossed my mind. But there's an interesting dynamic and chemistry there that opens up that door with her.
New. Fun. Exciting. Frustrating. All accurate terms describing that experience. It started off with her bringing me up to the bedroom and telling me to get undressed. Didn't ask, told me. I realized immediately that the dynamic had shifted from two dominant people giving and taking to her owning the scene. I was in her world tonight. I'm pretty sure my heart beat a little faster as I wondered what was in store. As I looked over at the bed I noticed rope laying on it... Questions answered.
I was told to lay down and knew exactly what was coming from there. I've done this. Many times. The only difference was that I was the one with the rope in my hand, not the one with both my wrists and ankles about to be tied to the bed. She used a tie called a cat's paw that I thought was interesting. Not so much a knot, as is the typical single limb cuff I would use, as it was a binding but it worked well. I made several attempts to free up a wrist and was not successful.
Which brings me to my next point: I struggled. Quite a bit. Especially when she would move close to my hands, which i'm sure was intentional. I would make attempts to touch or grab her and most of the time she would brush my hand away. Even in my tied up state I made attempts to gain some control, like when she moved her head too close to my hand and I grabbed her by the hair. She quickly removed my hand and slid away, keeping her head just out of reach from then on.
The rest of the session was essentially her teasing me in various ways and pleasing herself. Earlier she had tied a rope around my waist, loosely, and put a long knot on the end of it. I asked what it was for and she seemed amused that I didn't know. But she showed me. A lot. She would climb on top of me intermittently, with her pussy positioned just above my cock and start rubbing one or the both of us. And then the knot came into play. She'd grab it and position it on her clit, then start rocking her hips over me, rubbing the knot back and forth until she came. The sensation of being pulled toward her by the rope as she used it plus the visual had me dying to sink my cock into her.
The other thing that stands out was her taking advantage of my face, pretty literally. She crawled up, put her knees on either side of my head and lowered herself, gently pushing her wet lips onto my mouth. This was something we had also discussed prior, and I was happy to be of service in that area.
After releasing me I jumped on her and we had our usual fun. In the end, it was interesting and good, if not something I can easily do. As much as I already love pleasing someone it's very hard to slip into a bottom mindset when all my other interactions are colored by varying degrees of dominance. And I would do it again with the right person if I come across one. I'll explain why it won't be GGPB in another post.
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